Peer Advice

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Peer Advice

Get to know the SmartGirls who dish out advice in our Peer Advice column. Here's a list of our current contributors and why they think they would make a good SmartGirl Peer Mentor!

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Meet Our SG Peer Mentors:

Alison, age 15

SGPM since October 2010
I think I would make a good SG mentor because I like helping people with their problems, I'm a good listener, and I am able to put myself in other peoples perspectives to understand more about the situation and effectively come up with a solution.

Allie, age 16

SGPM since October 2010
I have a whole lot of experience with going through trials at home and at school (mostly not drama related), and I have always been the one to help people, including myself, get through them. I'm the oldest sister of a divorced family. Helping people through their problems has become a part of my everyday life, and I would love to help others who are out of my reach physically.

Bec, age 16

SGPM since July 2010
In 16 short years I have discovered and learnt about more life issues than a normal 16-year-old would, so I find that I would be able to relate to everyone in some way. My friends know me as the girl with the great advice and I hope to stick by that on SmartGirl as a Peer Mentor. I’m here to help.

Bethany, age 13

SGPM since March 2010
My friends always come to me for advice, the guys and girls. I'm like their life saver. Plus, I've been through a lot of different situations. Being a SmartGirl Mentor can help me help kids through the same situations I've gone through!

Bleeding Heart, age 15

SGPM since April 2010
I have been through so much, and when something goes down, I always try to my best to be the bigger person. I know how girls think and what they are going through. I give my friends advice whenever I can. I also have the time to read and reread all the issues and I am a natural-born listener. I also really want to help.

Cae, age 15

SGPM since March 2010
I would make a good peer mentor because I have had many teenage experiences where I have felt that no one understands. I would like to help girls and boys, my age, older, and younger, to know that they are not alone. We all go through hard times, and sometimes speaking to others who you don't see or talk to in your everyday life is more effective than talking to your best friend. We all have embarrassing moments. We all have heart-breaking experiences. I hope my advice reaches out to you adults, and preteens alike.

Cassie, age 13

SGPM since March 2010
My friends mainly come to me for advice: you know, when they're having a bad day or when they just need help. They end up taking my advice and it helps in the long run. That's why I'd be a good peer mentor.

Charlie, age 13

SGPM since March 2010
I love to help out, and I give good advice to lots of my friends. Helping people out is what I love to do, every day.

Dussie, age 16

SGPM since April 2010
I've been giving advice not only to girls my age, but also my younger sisters, cousins, and friends who need someone to talk to who has "been there." I've had my fair share of experiences and I've learned how to step back, take a look at a situation, and find a successful solution. Hopefully my experience can help another girl out so they don't have to make the same mistakes that I've made.

Eleana, age 14

SGPM since October 2010
Ihave had a lot of problems, but I know how to get over them. I think I would make a good SG Peer Mentor because I know how to deal with many things involving friends, family, and just life overall.

Elizabeth, age 20

SGPM since October 2010
I've been in Middle School, High School, and now my second year in college. If anyone knows about peer pressure, it would be me. I've been through what half these girls have been or will go through and I've seen my fair share. I know everything from being depressed to sex to bullies to drinking and drugs. I'm also a Psychology Major working my way up to get a Ph.D. so who better to have as a peer mentor?

Erika, age 14

SGPM since July 2010
I would be a good SmartGirl mentor because I am around the age of many SmartGirl visitors who need advice, and I love giving it! I believe that loving to do something helps one do that thing well.

Fiza, age 16

SGPM since October 2010
Hello, I'm Fiza. I'd like to try to help everyone, whether it's a little issue or a big situation. From crushes to make up to friends to depression to breakups, I'm here to help. I will try my best to answer your question, and will try my very best to lead you in the right direction. I'm a senior in high school right now, and I've certainly been through a lot, so this is why I want to be a mentor. I want to help people. I always enjoy putting smiles on people's face. I have a good sense of humor, I'm responsible, polite, and very friendly. I'm open to any questions you may have. You're a wonderful human being and you deserve an answer. This is why I'm here to assist. (:

Jen R., age 23

SGPM since October 2010
I am an elementary and middle school teacher and have years of experience mentoring boys and girls of all ages! I think the SmartGirl mission is fabulous and would love to be a part of it and help out in any way I can.

Katie, age 19

SGPM since February 2010
Well I've been through a lot in the past 20 years, battling an eating disorder, relationships (and broken hearts), friendship problems, confidence problems, and too many other issues to name! I would love to help as many of you as possible and help girls find a voice and be the inspirational young women that I know you all are! Remember: "Love, laugh, and smile."

Kaytrina, age 16

SGPM since August 2010
I think I would be a good SmartGirl Peer Mentor because I love helping people with their problems. I use what I know about psychology to help others. I use the advice that I would like to be given. I put myself in other people's shoes.

Kristy, age 19

SGPM since February 2010
I would make a good Smartgirl Peer Mentor as I love to help people and I have a lot of experience in many of the issues and would like to help teenage girls make the right decisions in the problems they face.  I am a friendly, outgoing person who is happy to take time out in the day to help people out when they need it and give them hope and courage to get through.

Lauren, age 13

SGPM since March 2010
I have gone through so much, and I know exactly what to do if something happens to make you feel uncomfortable or unsure. I give tons of advice out to people daily, and I always want to help someone.

Macy, age 14

SGPM since March 2010
I love to give advice! All my friends come to me for advice, and I really love making people feel better.

Olga, age 23

SGPM since August 2010
Olga is a Master of Public Health in Health Behavior and Health Education. She has been a peer mentor since high school, and now loves teaching sexual health to college students.

Peyton, age 14

SGPM since October 2010
I would be a good mentor because I'm the girl that everyone goes to for advice. I really like helping people and I've gone through some pretty tough things in my life, so I know how to handle a lot of different things.

Rachel, age 10

SGPM since August 2010
I would be a good SmartGirl Mentor because I love to help other people who are in need. I won't let it rest until I have helped to solve the problem.

Serendipity, age 18

SGPM since October 2010
I think that I’d be a great mentor simply because of the knowledge of life experiences that I can impart to others. Sometimes, all it takes a little guidance from one understanding person to turn a disastrous situation around for the better. I am practical, intelligent, and above all sympathetic to someone who feels misguided or lost because, let’s face it, we’ve all been there before. I’ve learned that in life, there will be moments when you feel confused and forlorn, and in those moments, a voice of compassion and reason is what you need; often, this voice is your conscience, but when that’s just not cutting it, you need help from someone else, and sometimes that advice needs to be from a person outside of your family and even your circle of closest friends. In those moments of uncertainty, you need the opinion of an individual who won’t judge you or chastise you like a parent, but who will keep your best interest in mind. Based on my own life experiences, I can honestly say that if I'd had a mentor who knew as much as I know now, those moments of insecurity and confusion would have been a lot less difficult for me to cope with; I cannot turn back the clock and undo my mistakes, but I can help others to avoid making the same mistakes I made. I know that I can help people who are having a hard time, whether their issues pertain to their relationships, friendships, families, or even the pressures of applying to college. The wisdom that I’ve acquired in my eighteen years of life, little though it is, can go a long way!

Shelby, age 13

SGPM since March 2010
I'd be a good mentor because I have been through a lot and I think I can help in any way possible. I am nice and I think of everything on the bright side.

Stacey, age 13

SGPM since April 2010
I've been through many experiences that lots of girls go through. I love to give advice and my friends always come to me when they have a problem. I'm always happy to help!

Violet Joy, age 16

SGPM since July 2010
I've been through a lot for just being 16. I know all about divorce and breakups and all sorts of issues, both with family and friends. I wish I would have had good advice through situations like this, and I think it's great that SmartGirl offers it. So keep the questions coming and hopefully I can help!